Booby Trap, Contributed By @olawalium.
The stories I get to hear these days always make me laugh. They are quite unbelievable stories that you would wonder how people find themselves in it or you will marvel why common sense wouldn’t apply in such an instance. As funny as those stories might sound, they are real life stories and people definitely go through them. Not everyone is capable of making decisions with a clear head where their emotions is concerned and this is why they would seek help from a neutral person who isn’t bound by emotions, to give them the common sense they couldn’t apply to such a case.
For those who have been following me quite well, you will know I always tell people; both guys and girls to always go into relationships with their heart as well as their head. No one should walk in blind or ignore the warning signs right early in the relationship. You need to address everything and seek for clarity because your heart is involved too. Don’t let your desire to have a man or have a lady override your common sense.
Think and ask questions because you are expected to do what’s best for you in making this vital decision. If you are not ready to go all the way, don’t jump in the ship and when you notice a guy or a lady is not ready to go all in and be committed, don’t waste your time else you will live to regret the time you spent waiting for someone who couldn’t decide or make up his or her mind. Why should someone else’s decision alter the course of your own life? Since that person is doing what’s best for him or her, please why can’t you do the same? Why should your own life be on hold over someone who is unstable as the ocean water? Wisdom is profitable.
A relationship isn’t a do or die affair. If you couldn’t date that person, it doesn’t mean others won’t come. The person who came saw something in you, so why would you think he or she is the only one who can see that? There is more to you than just the one thing someone saw.
If they treat you like a joke, leave them like it is funny.
…to be continued…
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Rightly said @olawalium not everyone is ready to make decision..even in todays fast paced life the people are more in a hurry to think and make any thoughtful decision.
Due to all these sudden decision we get to hear many real life stories. People tend to take a relationship as just an office excel file to work upon rather than a part of life to live upon. Interestingly the things which were part of western civislisation are influencing many young couple around the world even indian who were alwsys known for ethics and tradition did not remain untouched. Our new generation people are too much in a hurry to think upon a cominted relationship they are more favoring to One Night Stand .
Pretty difficult to make people understand the love life relationship. You may say because of the work culture or new influcnes which are spoiling many relationship.
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Civilization is really affecting almost everyone. A lot of people want to keep up with the trend. You see many people on social media faking love and happiness, and yet these are the same set of people you'd see our people try to model themselves after, by putting themselves under undue pressure, thereby complicating their lives in the end.
Not dur undue pressure. I belive just to show off. They pretend to be cool guy instead of a real man. All these modern movies and internet is affecting all age old civilisation.
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Absolutely; merely for show-offs and to keep up with the latest trend. It is quite sad.
Welcome back @olawalium and @communitycoin ,we should take decisions with full attention and honesty. No one should quickly accept or reject to any person. If we want to go in relationship with someone then we must be clear about what type relation it is that we are going to build.And need to keep in mind that if you have fallen in this relationship then you will have to stand with ups and downs.
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Yes, my friend. We need to know what kind of relationship we are going into. It should be ascertained and the end goal should be known.
Yes you are right, theyy treat you anyhow and you still wait maybe they will change , you will be a long time fool cos they will never change , they can only pretend
Nice Jobe
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