When to end a relationship toxic

Hello friends, today I want to talk about the relations toxic substances, which in some cases become unhealthy. 

Usually when we began, with couple relationship, we are excited and with very good expectations, so new that is being born between those two people, possibly this illusion is created because really despite that begin a relationship, there are no known as well, there are relationships that are born because they like physically or because it has time talking and feel that they have many things in common, or friendships that after a long time, they realize that should be together, there are endless ways of as starts a relationship of a couple. The behaviors are not normally seen at the beginning, you can say that starting is like a fairy fantasy; where everything seems perfect, but these moments are short-lived, and then begin appear the problems.   

We began to confuse love with obligation, everything becomes a little chaotic, very difficult to handle, is as love and to hate at a time, and there is when one wondered?, as two people who love so well, can be in a constant fight, perhaps do not realize that they are destroying, all those good moments that have lived, be at that time, or better said to live it makes you think if really worth continue, if indeed the situation is going to change or will continue to follow the same path, are questions that pass through our heads. On the one hand we think love very much to that person, and that with it you feel very well, and on the other hand you think, why do we fight so much?, if we know that all this can be better and there is the confusion, and in many cases these thoughts we save for a good time, until in a discussion, we exploit it and we say everything that we feel, this is ideal, no!

                       Sometimes you can and sometimes do not! 

Now, we have to be aware that there are some relationships. That when they decide to talk, because unfortunately are very damaged, already so it exist is rancor, hatred of the other, or in many cases even just love, but somehow still together, it seems that the one cannot be without the other, are together virtually by obligation, this case I have seen much in people 35 years of age onwards and happens because these people think that it is not worthwhile to continue having intercourse, and prefer in many cases the comfort before that happiness, and there our lives become unhappy, it is best to say enough! 

But obviously not all cases are the same, there are people who really have the will to improve this relationship that is damaged and are willing to recognize their errors, and seek to improve personally. And as a result, the relationship of couples becomes more stable and more bearable, and if you really love will always have a meeting point to return from the beginning, and deal with the actions to erase everything bad, and this is extremely important, one cannot be living of the past, there is that live in the present, to have a better future.  

                      As we can prevent our relations become toxic 

First of all we must understand that we cannot nothing, keeping us feelings that we feel from our relationships, it is necessary to establish a continuous communication with our partner, say things that bother us or that we like, understand that discuss it is not always bad, rather from my point of view enriches the relationship. Have the virtue of putting each one their point of view, defend it, but the most important respect, creates a link greater, establish so to speak a consensus where, regardless of our ideas or opinions.  

When it is achieved that communication in the couple, is a symbol of maturity, is to understand that despite the personal differences, you can find the way to build a loving relationship from scratch, and with good strength for any eventuality that may occur, it is not that there are no problems, rather it is to avoid the problem, and the other is giving alone, communicating is not so difficult, really, but as it costs them to many couples do it!, that is why I firmly believe that a good communication, is a symbol of a lasting relationship.  

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