I believe one of the biggest problems in this country is people sticking their nose where it doesn't belong , in particular employers who for some reason think they need to know anything and everything about an employee on and off the clock and for some reason convey the thinking that they own the person . I find the we are family approach that some companies like to portrait is everything but that , because simply put we are not family , we maintain a work for pay relationship nothing more , there are things even my (real) family doesn't know about me so why should an employer , what this guy did is a classic example and borderlines a defamation of character case because regardless of his thoughts it's none of his business period , while I don't agree with this girl totally , it's not for me to judge her preferences nor what she does away on her own time in her own life , a mistake being posting things of a social media site where everybody has access to it .