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in #psychology5 years ago (edited)

There comes a moment when you say "No," and you finally mean it; you forced yourself to acknowledge its invisible strings;..
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Whether trivial or tormenting, each of these moments is an exercise in that poorly understood power, namely, the

power of No.

No is both the tool and the barrier by which we establish and maintain the distinct perimeter of the self.

No says, "This is who I am; this is what I value; this is what I will and will not do; this is how I will choose to act."
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We love others, give to others, cooperate with others, and please others, but we are, always and at the core, distinct and separate selves.
We need No to carve and support that space.

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The word NO is a rather interesting word and taken quite easily in daily conversation but it has a deeper meaning of it,in common understanding

Your brain intercept all the words and their meaning,the whole sentence will be separated into individual words and then put together to make a meaning to/for your brain.
Now if the brain took the command to not do something; then it would mean to do anything except that something in other words that means to do
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No and negativity are closly connected

  • Negativis a chronic attitude, through which some people get a cloudy view of the world.
    Negativity expresses itself in a whining perfectionism, a discontent, or risk-averse naysaying.
    & It's an energy sapper.
    Negative people may douse the enthusiasm of others, but rarely inspire them to action. Negativity certainly ensures that you will not be pleased. And you lose all your power

There's a lot of talk, and a lot to be said, for the

power of Yes.

Yes supports risk-taking, courage, and an open-hearted approach to life whose grace cannot be minimized.

But No—a metal grate that slams shut the window between one's self and the influence of others—is rarely celebrated.
It's a hidden power because it is both easily misunderstood and difficult to engage.
It's likely that we are unaware of the surge of strength we draw from No because, in part, it is easily confused with negativity. Either can involve a turning away, a shake of the head, or a firm refusal. But they are distinctly different psychological states.

“It does not do to leave a live dragon out of your calculations, if you live near her.
♡ 🐲ℒℴve 🐉♡

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