"I would not die for any of my family members."

This is very sad and I guess you don´t have children. Please consider having children and taking care that they become smart and good persons and can survive in future uncertainties, is quite a task. Instead of getting 100000$ - well, ääh yes thats also a task, but I would not die for it. It is just money, paper or digital assests (in case of Steem) which you need to change back to paper money in order to use them.
Family is the foundation of everything. Ignoring this is not wise.