Bullies crave power, they need to have power over their victim, to temporarily fill their own power vacuum (often gained because they had their power taken by someone else). However the point here is you cant have your power taken, you can only give it up. If a bully pushes you over, get up and shrug to anyone looking, but not the bully. If the bully bloodies your nose, smile and show the blood in your teeth to others, never to the bully. Someone trolls you online, make a joke on a different topic, dont reply to the bully. You are right, the bully is wrong, you have the power, they gave their power away and are trying to have you give up yours for them.