Faking it hmm the worst disease you can ever think of.
Living a fake life is the worst disease on earth. At the time of you doing it, you wont notice but as time goes, you will surely regret wHile you engage in such.
A lot of girls especially on Facebook snap and show off what they dont own and at the end missed out on who has interest in them.
My advice is try to be who you arE
but if you say faking it is cool then go ahead, as you have you life to leave
But have it in mind that faking it is simply fooling your self
Some girls also love those apps for beautification called beauty plus. What this app does is to make you look more prettier than the original. Now when a boy who loves her sees her pictures, he will be thinking the girl is prettier like that when they met in real life, the man will be disappointed. You see that the reward for faking it is just mockery/destruction @rok-sivante
mimicking certainty, ability, and an idealistic outlook, a man can understand those characteristics in their genuine living. It echoes the fundamental standards of intellectual behavioral treatment as a way to empower an adjustment in one's conduct. In case you're caught up with attempting to counterfeit something, what you're not doing is using the push to discover that aptitude. Which implies what you're truly doing is keeping yourself down in your profession.
What you are describing is one of the main issues with the current state of our civilization.
Social networks are used by the masses to try to project an image of themselves that correspond to some kind of ideal they wish they could achieve.
Such a waste of time and energy when focus could be brought into one's life to attain more reasonable and fulllfilling goals.
Too many people try to live in the eyes of others.
I'm glad you found better meanings in life.
Thanks for sharing.
Faking it or comparing ourselves in general deep down has always to do with a lack of Self-Love. "I love you as much as I love myself instead of "I love myself as much as I love you" should be our directive, realizing that we can give Love to others only to the extend we love ourselves and not vice versa.
Exactly this happens with achievement, as placing ourselves second means we are not in alignment with our own unique path and instead attempt to mimic others' path. We are actually disparaging our uniqueness.
But as you conclude, everyone should see themselves what works out for them and what not. What are we to judge? Unconditional Love means complete Acceptance for each one's decisions, knowing that everything in life provides a learning lesson that will inevitably help us grow. Talking other people out of their choices is pointless. Theory is good but what counts most is the PRACTICAL EXPERIENCE.
Faking things is so much hard work. As the street language goes, "real recognises real." So, truth be told most fakers only succeed in majority of the instances to hoodwink their fellow fakes. The real guys, often, recognises a fake from a mile off. Nothing beats real as the extra energy you would have dispensed in keeping up with the fake persona could've been better channeled into making something useful out of your life. But this is life, I've seen rare instances of fake guys hitting the big leagues. Just like a blue moon, it only happens once in a while. Thank you.
In my opinion if you will fake your self then you will lose your real self and in my opinion no one can live without their real self means for example the actors and actresses hide their real self under the make up but when they go home they sit with their real self because that's their real thing and if we are faking in aspect of greediness just remember our needs are perishable means for example today we need money and today we are faking for money and one day we really need relationships and in my opinion relationships cannot be developed through faking. Thanks for sharing this post and your experience with us. Wishing you an great day. Stay blessed. 🙂
There's a lot of glittery behavior in the spiritual community that I think is very fake. People make their videos and they want to look very beautiful and sparkly and seem like they have it figured out. I will never do that. I appreciate the raw and the real. But what's funny is that now there's this "authenticity" movement among the spiritual community. It has become trendy to be spiritual and say fuck. I'm being so real, guys. But a lot of this is actually fake authenticity. But if you look around at who's successful, people want to watch the bubble gum stuff.
I remember when I went for a retreat that had in attendance top business men. I had to fake being a successful business man in order to fit in.
Halfway through the retreat, I was fed up with faking it. It was then I was really able to connect with these top guys. One of them later told me that at first it seemed as if I was trying too hard to impress.
If I had kept up the act, that retreat would have been a waste of my time. So fake it till you make for me is definitely not the best approach to life
This so well demonstrates some of the key points in here - though rather than just exploring theoretically, provides a perfect example of these dynamics in action.
The fake it make it does not really work for everyone. Seem a lot of persons who has done that in the past and end up missing opportunity of a lifetime, probably the helper felt this person got everything he/she needed so no need to lend a hand.
Like you said, do what works for you,the "fake it"approach doesn't work for me.
sometimes people want to be like other people by covering up all its shortcomings and forcing to display the advantages. whereas a deficiency can be an advantage that can be used.
Thanks @rok-sivante
Faking it hmm the worst disease you can ever think of.
Living a fake life is the worst disease on earth. At the time of you doing it, you wont notice but as time goes, you will surely regret wHile you engage in such.
My advice is try to be who you arE
But have it in mind that faking it is simply fooling your self
@rok-sivante
Rather crazy that such a strategy is promoted/adviser, isn’t it...?
Yeah.
mimicking certainty, ability, and an idealistic outlook, a man can understand those characteristics in their genuine living. It echoes the fundamental standards of intellectual behavioral treatment as a way to empower an adjustment in one's conduct. In case you're caught up with attempting to counterfeit something, what you're not doing is using the push to discover that aptitude. Which implies what you're truly doing is keeping yourself down in your profession.
What you are describing is one of the main issues with the current state of our civilization.
Social networks are used by the masses to try to project an image of themselves that correspond to some kind of ideal they wish they could achieve.
Such a waste of time and energy when focus could be brought into one's life to attain more reasonable and fulllfilling goals.
Too many people try to live in the eyes of others.
I'm glad you found better meanings in life.
Thanks for sharing.
Amen. 🙌
Faking it or comparing ourselves in general deep down has always to do with a lack of Self-Love. "I love you as much as I love myself instead of "I love myself as much as I love you" should be our directive, realizing that we can give Love to others only to the extend we love ourselves and not vice versa.
Exactly this happens with achievement, as placing ourselves second means we are not in alignment with our own unique path and instead attempt to mimic others' path. We are actually disparaging our uniqueness.
But as you conclude, everyone should see themselves what works out for them and what not. What are we to judge? Unconditional Love means complete Acceptance for each one's decisions, knowing that everything in life provides a learning lesson that will inevitably help us grow. Talking other people out of their choices is pointless. Theory is good but what counts most is the PRACTICAL EXPERIENCE.
Thanks a lot for your outspoken style!;)
Brilliantly stated.
Your welcome.
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Faking things is so much hard work. As the street language goes, "real recognises real." So, truth be told most fakers only succeed in majority of the instances to hoodwink their fellow fakes. The real guys, often, recognises a fake from a mile off. Nothing beats real as the extra energy you would have dispensed in keeping up with the fake persona could've been better channeled into making something useful out of your life. But this is life, I've seen rare instances of fake guys hitting the big leagues. Just like a blue moon, it only happens once in a while. Thank you.
Amen, brotha! 🙌💓
In my opinion if you will fake your self then you will lose your real self and in my opinion no one can live without their real self means for example the actors and actresses hide their real self under the make up but when they go home they sit with their real self because that's their real thing and if we are faking in aspect of greediness just remember our needs are perishable means for example today we need money and today we are faking for money and one day we really need relationships and in my opinion relationships cannot be developed through faking. Thanks for sharing this post and your experience with us. Wishing you an great day. Stay blessed. 🙂
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There's a lot of glittery behavior in the spiritual community that I think is very fake. People make their videos and they want to look very beautiful and sparkly and seem like they have it figured out. I will never do that. I appreciate the raw and the real. But what's funny is that now there's this "authenticity" movement among the spiritual community. It has become trendy to be spiritual and say fuck. I'm being so real, guys. But a lot of this is actually fake authenticity. But if you look around at who's successful, people want to watch the bubble gum stuff.
Hallelujah!! 🙌
I remember when I went for a retreat that had in attendance top business men. I had to fake being a successful business man in order to fit in.
Halfway through the retreat, I was fed up with faking it. It was then I was really able to connect with these top guys. One of them later told me that at first it seemed as if I was trying too hard to impress.
If I had kept up the act, that retreat would have been a waste of my time. So fake it till you make for me is definitely not the best approach to life
The Power of a story...
This so well demonstrates some of the key points in here - though rather than just exploring theoretically, provides a perfect example of these dynamics in action.
The fake it make it does not really work for everyone. Seem a lot of persons who has done that in the past and end up missing opportunity of a lifetime, probably the helper felt this person got everything he/she needed so no need to lend a hand.
Like you said, do what works for you,the "fake it"approach doesn't work for me.
posting the best ayang I really like and I keep following you
Yes! This was a point I intended but forgot to include - you summed it up perfectly!
sometimes people want to be like other people by covering up all its shortcomings and forcing to display the advantages. whereas a deficiency can be an advantage that can be used.
Thanks @rok-sivante
Excellent point!