hey man I send u here some words of a book called Tao Te King
The supreme good is like water,
wich nourishes all things without trying to.
It is content with the low places that people desdain.
Thus it is like the Tao.

In Dwelling, live close to the ground.
In thinking , keep to the simple.
In conflict, be fair and generous.
In governing , don't try to control.
In work , do what you enjoy.
In family life , be completely present.