@colinhoward it was no small feat to choose your reaction. That my friend was a big win. I had a similar incident yesterday which incidentally was the same day of the event you mentioned above. On my walk back from walking my son to school. I got to the zebra crossing. The vehicles in both direction stopped so I started to cross. Just as I had taken 2 steps the vehicle started to drive towards me. I stepped backwards to avoid being hit. My usual reaction would be to ask her if she was blind? This time instead I found myself concerned for what challenges she could be going through that got her intensely present but not there. She came to herself and was clearly shocked.