THE FEAR THAT COMES WITH REPLICATING "EXCELLENCE" TO OUR INDIVIDUAL SELF.

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There are often moments where we always excel apparently when it comes to helping others but always failing woefully when it comes to actualising that same endeavor in our lives. The truth is, we are often better when there are no emotional attachment to a particular task we're indulged in. But this is a factor that we often neglect in our lives, there is always a fear of uncertainty coupled with a prone attitude to mistake when we are battling with something related to our lives. And believe me even when we want to be 100% emotionless reason why we can't hundred percent excel in things that are definitely so easy is when these things are apparently about us, for us and by us. Fear it's not only an attitude it is like a stain or blot that leaves us doubting even in the most surest of circumstances. Fear makes us that our abilities and that exact moment where we start doubting our abilities is where we start welcoming mistakes when we're discharging a duty assigned to us.

So we can't afford to be sentimental when it comes to situation where we need open-mindedness, but because we can't do without being sentimental we often allow people who aren't concerned whether we fail or pass handle our excesses. That process of embracing that professionalism and choosing to be indifferent is what makes the difference. ** in other word we can be as bad as much as we are good as discharging a duty** this is because we need a sound mind when making decisions or trying to be logical or even reasonable and we can be poor as possible. The truth is that we are often scared to tell people that we are constant failures or seek help when fazed with situations that seems just too little for us to handle. It hurts to know that we could pilot other people's ship without looking at the storm, but while we are just trying to captain ship it's like the storm is multiplied and they are often more blizzards ahead than we know. The bottom line is that it boils down to the fact that we are afraid to fail in doing things that comes naturally to us

So can we shake this off? Definitely no! Sometimes we are often blinded by familiarity, that is to say it's like we are experiencing a whole new deja vu struggling hard to maintain a particular kind of standard in order to always replicate that smart nice and that vibe from that brilliant brain of ours. Needless to say. Everything we see in life and unable to accomplish at a certain point it's not finding that familiar courage or that boost. That is to say we fear to fail before we even begin and before we even begin we are already working hard towards failure and where we are expecting a successful result we put in work without efficiency at the end we can't find the basis of every bad thing happening to us. However we cannot force herself not to be what we are not because sometimes it takes a mystery and control in order to undertake, conquer and boast of boisterous results.