Reasons Why Snooping Through Your Partner's Phone is No No.

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In as much as some say what belongs to your partner also belongs to you because you're one hearts now, it is a terrible idea to snoop through your partner's phone. 80% of people who snoop through their spouse's phone end up being super depressed which eventually leads to abominable situations and this is no new news. Below are reason why snooping is a no no:

1. If you snoop, you lack trust..
   Snooping means yo be devious and cunning so as not tto be seen. It also means to secretly spy on or investigate especially into the private life of others. So many people think when they snoop on their partner, it means they don't truatthem. No baby! It is you who distrust yourself because of your insecurities and jealousy, youre always having imaginations like "I don't think I'm enough for him", "I'm not good enough for him"e.t.c. if you love him/her, the trusting them shouldn't be so difficult. Relationships don't work perfectly without trust.

2. Snooping always brings pain.
   Even if you find out your partners deleted his dialled calls, messages and chats, it will leave you angry because you will feel he's trying not to get caught which will leave you in an unnecessary condition of pain. Nothing positive comes out from snooping.

3. Snooping could lead to breakup in marriages and relationships.
   Some girls/guys ruin their relationship themselves by snooping through heir partner's phone. Some people do not forgive the act of snooping and could breakup with their partner just for this reason most especially when they find put the reason for you snooping on him/her is because you don't trust them. Snooping makes you the unworthy one and in the end you could lose your marriage/relationship.

4. Snooping leads to misunderstanding.
   You read meanings into every " hi" or "hello" a girl or guy sends your spouse via chat apps. I've been a witness of a scenario where a man slapped his wife in public because he taught she was a lesbian after he snooped on her and later discovered his findings were untrue. That's what snooping does, it ruins your joy and happiness.

5. Snooping means you're immature.
   They are other better ways one could deal and beat their insecurities and red flags. It is possible to find out if your partner is cheating on you or not.

Some say snooping will lead to transparency in your relationships. It will also reduce chances of cheating, brings inner peace, it will make your spouse not do anything bad to hurt you and it will also make you know your partner very well. Well I ain't disputing this facts but then ain't they better ways to make your marriage/transparent? Every partner deserves their privacy so you don't always have to butt into their privacy.

I know of a man who cheats very well on his wife but his wife will never finds out. His girlfriend(side chick) doesn't have his cell phone number so he leaves his phone unlocked in his living room. He only communicates with his friend via his office landline and that's the only number she can call. They only see during his work hours. So tell me, how would you know if this man is cheating if you snoop through his unlocked phone?.

If you suspect your spouse of cheating, then just ask them. Snooping means disrespect . and ots wrong to intrude into your spouse's privacy These are my views though. Thanks for reading Steemers.. A lovely morning and day ahead to you all. I remain @elaebi.

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