Thank's a lot for your great and meaningful comment.
I don't like to disappoint people but I must always tell the truth.
When we choose that there is life after death, I think it is just a self-defense mechanism against the awareness of the finitude of life, and the human brain is the most self-deceptive master.
We always go back to where we came from, but while I'me here I just believe that no Fate can stop my self-constructed Destiny.
We can get energetically get out of our bodies, but this must not be confused with connections with post-death "entities".
it's normal to feel this kind of imaginative visions, mostly when we are young, but I recommend to use that part to take deeper pictures of your inner self, to find out who we really are.
The only religion and extasy of the world this self-enlightening, and the eureka of discovering the dark corners of our spirit.

We must be prepared to die, and I remember Aldous Huxley that in his last week of life, gave an order to the servant to tell visitors that he couldn't receive anybody, "because the master was busy preparing his Death".
And he went away with a big shot of mescaline in the end and his corpse had a big smile in the face. :)
The only fate in Life is Death the rest is our own destiny build on Earth without worrying with what comes next.
If there is anything above us, it created us with free will for self-determination, so we must no worry about it.
I finish with a question
"How many dead are alive?"
I remembered a track from the best punk album of 1977 - the band Wire and the most difficult listening track Pink Flag.