Thanks for your insight! I'll try to cover a different aspect in my comment:
I think I am a light control freak; when doing something for the first times, I tend to think of many or all of the processes and try to streamline everything for time and efficiency. When someone else does the same thing and they can't raise up to my expectations I feel the need to take it apart and do it my way. Of course that I fight it, it's why I am only a light control freak.
And that's also the reason behind why my home is always messy, I don't have the time to clean it up and I don't like anyone else to do the job :)