Thanks for the alternative perspective on this topic.

I would agree that living in a society, we shouldn't completely neglect the opinion or advice of others. We are a social species and to totally disregard the views of others can have serious consequences. Indeed, constructive criticism certainly has its place, and sometimes we need to be reminded of our faults in order to improve.

I suppose I'm referring to the frivolous, superficial, unhelpful kind of backtalk and specifically our paranoia that such talk is occurring. As with anything, balance is essential.