‘ Yes, I can sit at a million venues, with a hundred people - discussing their jimmy choos and yacht trips the weekend past, but at the end of the day none of these interactions leave me feeling fulfilled. I honestly have about as much time for arrogance and pretention as a cat has interest in swimming. I want the REAL DEAL!! ‘

So true but I also want that next to the real deal just to keep me grounded.
And I had strays in the past and the hurt me so that combo of the two is the best in my opinion and life and it worked out