Depends...

If I say "I'm going to have sex with your spouse" or I just go have sex with your spouse.

Which would bother you more?

Trump at this point is a big pot of smelly WORDS. That's all. Anything we say he will do when he is in office is speculation. Most of his words are meaningless as to what he can actually do. Yet that is true of Hillary, she's literally supported every position that you can even those that contradict each other. This too is not unusual. It is the status quo for the politicians that typically get elected. They usually do things VERY different from what they said when campaigning. So this tells me I literally only know one certainty about Trump if he is president. He will say a lot of really stupid things. The rest I literally have no clue and am speculating. I'm speculating he'd be pretty bad.

Hillary on the other hand. I've researched the shit out of her. She is perhaps the most corrupt person I've ever seen run for office. There is just so much she has done wrong, and illegal going all the way back as far as 1974 and Watergate...
Furthermore she is ACTIONS not words. Her actions have been BAD, STUPID, and as you put it... FUCKNUTS. Her words sound flowery and are what some people want to hear, next time they'll be targeted better. Her actions though are HORRIBLE.

Personally people can say they are going to FUCK my wife all they want. It ain't going to happen. I'd be far more concerned about the person that actually does it (if they are not me).

Also... you mentioned civility and being able to talk about politics. I agree with you. I haven't called you stupid or implied that you are. In fact I don't even think that. I just think we disagree. So if you want to keep it that way keep the smack talk "walking upright is newfangled and liberal" out of it because it is people that think those things that need to look in the mirror. NOW I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt because this is a passionate topic. We all do crap like that. Yes, I do to. If someone points it out I apologize. I have been researching Hillary since around 2008. I didn't know much about her before that. Actually I thought she was way cool because when I was younger I really supported Bill Clinton as president. So I am not just paying attention to TRUMP and others. I am paying attention to things that have happened outside of the election cycle too.

What do you think that while she was Secretary of State the position that was supposed to monitor her department for corruption remained empty for the 5 years she was there. That is just one of HUNDREDS of things. She is extremely corrupt, and without a doubt a criminal for many things beyond emails.