LIKE IT!!
It reminds me a good and wise proverb, it's not in Enlgish in original, so sorry for possible bad translation:
"If there's a distance of 10 steps between you and another person, make 5 steps by yourself, if she(he) doesn't make other 5 steps by herself, then turn back and go away - there will be no future with her".
It's really so, 2 people are always guilty in the "distance" between them, and it's their commin mission to overcome it and destroy the bareer. If only one of them wants it - no success.
P.S
I want to ask what you think, but I won't-)
because I know you have dozens of comments and too little time to reply them all-)