Breakup!

We all need love and desire to be loved. We push bound and hold our hearts in our hands whenever we think we have someone that makes us happy. We try to do everything we can to make them happy. We tell the truths and the white lies, we are nice and polite and always willing to make them happy.

How then do we end up loosing them when it is all getting so sweet and better?
Why does loving somebody end up becoming a game of hate and dislike?
How is it possible that love in itself has all elements of hate?

When it isn't love it is hate and when we are not loved up, we break up.

Can we make up after this breakup?