That's a really good reminder. I grew up in a somewhat cold and strict family we're closer now but we are still divided. It's hard and requires intentionality to stay in love. I'm in charge of keeping the household a float yet it doesn't feel lovely when the people you are trying to uplift are also the ones setting up the hurdles you have to jump over. God bless you and your family.
I'm sorry to hear that. I feel you. But, there's nothing impossible. They were your family, whenever they're still your family, and you have to still love them although the all were cold. And, I'm sure they love and care with you. But they have their own way to loving their family. Be patient, God never sleeps :)