Great post you have got there!

if anything in my life is broken, i must learn to fix it, if its in a friend's life, i must tread with caution in fixing it but i must still lend out a helping hand to fix my friend.
The proof that i am looking for flaws in another man is because i am broken myself and i have flaws i am unable to overcome.

Learn when to fix things yourself and know when to ask for help

asking for help doesn't mean you are weak, it just means you are strong enough to know when to allow another man into your life to help you.

Thank You @krazykrista.