RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE MATTERS: # LOVE YOUR OWN BEAUTIFUL WIFE OR HUSBAND#101 AND LEARN HOW TO KEEP AND HAVE A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP
SUMMARY:
Love Your "Own Beautiful Wife"
DON'T SHOUT AT YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE WHEN YOU ARE TALKING.
It really hurts him or her it is a sign that you don't not respect and value your partner when ever you shout at him or her when you are talking to him or her, you can ever talk with a gentle voice and there are other was you can address your issues without shouting at him or her Even the bible say that your husband is the head of the family and that your wife is your help mate and not someone you should shout on.
The same thing goes to the women too you don't have any right to shout at your husband because when other women see you shouting at him they will never respect him again because they have seen you doing that before. So no matter what the situation is you should never shout at him outside and in front of your children.
Because it will make them not to have respect and regards for either your husband or wife, what ever issues you are having should be settled before you two go to bed at night. And the best time for you two to settle your misunderstanding should be in your bedroom.
Once you abide with this rules you will have a good and long lasting relationship with your spouses and you will live old and happily ever after.
DO NOT SPEAK EVIL OF HIM OR HER TO ANYONE.
Your wife or husband will become who you call him or her. You know sometime you talk about your wife or husband outside to other people it simply means that you are inviting a third party to your marriage or relationship and remember one thing that what ever you call your dog is what he is going to answer.
I wonder why you would speak evil of your just because of your friend showed you what her husband or his wife did for him or her and you, and you started talking there is no marriage or relationship that is a bed a of roses there is always ups and down to every relationship it depends on how you handle your own that will determine how people will respect you.
You don't expect people to respect you or emulate your marriage when ever time you speak evil about your partner. So learn to respect each other work with your partner to keep your marriage or relationship going.
DO NOT SHARE HIS OR HER LOVE OR AFFECTION WITH ANOTHER MAN OR WOMAN.
It is called Adultery come to think of it what does your mind tell you when you want to cheat on your partner? Does he or she looks stupid or didn't you see that he or she was very ugly before you propose to her or before you accepted his proposal?
Sharing your partner love or affection with another man or woman show that you don't have respect or even loved him or her in the initial place. May be because it is because he was very rich when you meat him so you married him because of his money and not because you loved him.
Or may be because you saw that she was very beautiful or that she has a very big boobs and all that, That is why you went and marry her not because you loved her in the first place.
And we forgot that money can finished one day and also that beauty also fades away she can not remain as beautiful as she was the first time you meat her. And also we forgot that you two will get old one day with wrinkles all over your faces.
Love coverity all things no matter what happen love does not hate, love tolerate love is enduring love is encouraging so keep loving keep trusting.
Marriage is supposed to be build from and sustained by understanding. I like the first point you started, its a sign of immaturity for a husband or a wife to raise his/her voice on the spouse. Raising your voice on your spouse makes your children and neighbors to disrespect your spouse.
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Thank you very much for your good comment, like said on my write for every marriage or relationship to last the test of time spouse shouldn't shout or in the public and in the front of their kids its a sign of disrespect. Thank you am already following you do well to follow me back to continue to get more of my good post
Thank you friend.