“Everyone who turns up in your life – from the people you call friends or lovers, to the people you call enemies or strangers – comes in response to your Vibrational asking. You not only invite the person, but you also invite the personality traits of the person.” Abraham Hicks
We can take the best or the worst from our relationships with others depend on our personal vibes.
If we don't love and respect ourselves dont expect other to do it.
The victim and the abuser "seek" each other.