Trying to find the rythem of the people can be hard. Steemit is even harder to figure out, steemit is more about pandering to people than it is the content it seems. So my best two cents is to not care or worry a fig about these things or you will only drive yourself crazy. Focus less on the numbers and more on the joy of creating and the following/money will find you there. Stay beautiful me-lady. Love that crow image, you are a vision of dark strength.