That's not at all what I said. You can't just take the title and run with it haha. I said in the video don't be serious, but be sincere. You can sincerely learn and grow and contribute, but to do so seriously would ruin the enjoyment out of it. I spent the first 3 months here just making guides and tutorials for Steemians. I guarantee if you can manage to take your seriousness down one notch, it will make all the difference.