@happycrazycon, always learn something different when reading other Steemians post, including yours.

Trust and forgiveness are 2 components which is most difficultly measured by any examinations, and I do agree setting healthy boundaries would reduce but not eliminate any betrayal. While everyone is having an equal 24 hours, why not focus on something positive and grow? By doing more good deeds like @iamjadeline, we tend to have lesser time to look after negative energy (or basically we should just ignore them). Hope that helps.