I love this, it's hard though. There are many times when taking the "No" stance isolates you from community and turns you into a misfit. Right now I'm going through a difficult time as I haven't met a single soul that shares my ideals and values in the place I'm currently living in. Gets tempting to just say: "fuck it, Yes, let's keep this destructive model going I just need to fit in for a bit". But I'm a stubborn one so still got lot's of strength in me to keep the resistance up.