Actually I was a victim of child molestation. It wasn't by anyone affiliated with a religion. I have a very good understanding on how things work, and have compassion for many things. However, I don't have much compassion for close minded people. I'm married, and have three children. My wife is a Christian, and my children go to church too. I choose not to participate unless the kids have a program, or something special. Everyone in life has been dealt a shitty hand, but it's how you get back up after you fall. You'll live life being a bitter close minded fool if you can't see the pros and cons from all things.