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RE: You Are Your Choices - Stop Fucking Complaining
Preach. Thanks for saying what many don't because it may hurt feelings of people they care about. Well, if you really cared about them, you would help them improve instead of letting them rot away doing the daily mundane activities plus complaining.
I was told this yesterday: that "genius" person in your class isn't born a genius. They put in the work, learned how to code in x language, and excelled at it way before they came to class. They weren't born knowing the language. They've already put in the hours years ago so now they can fly by the course.
No one ever made it without putting a substantial amount of work. There's a lot that went on in between the "before" and "after" phases. Great post!
It's always good, to be frank, and tell people your opinion. Huh, you see, the individual you want to help needs to want change, to be improved too or you will not be able to give him a hand. I have real life friends on Steem that are not making anything, and I told them what they have to do to gain some awareness for their blog, but they are too lazy to do it.
Sadly most people just focus on the "after," the outcome, on where are you at now and forget about what you did to get there and call you lucky. There's a lot more to the journey than the destination. ;)
This is the main thing! I'm surprised your friends won't take your advice. Who wouldn't wanna learn how to be successful from someone who's doing well? People blow my mind.. This is where them wanting to learn is crucial.
Ugh. This must feel frustrating but hey, you know how hard you worked so let the haters hate haha
He knows that what I'm telling him is the way to do it but as he stated it, he's too lazy to do it, people you know.
Well, so far no one called me lucky since I'm not that successful but I have whale friends, and I know how frustrating it might be for them. :D