Ah, I'm a huge fan of this post. I've been exploring poly for almost two years now and woooweee it's been quite the ride. As much as it's been one of the most intense experiences ever, I don't think I can ever go back.

There's this very clear sense of freedom and growth that you experience in these types of relationship dynamics, that just don't exist in monogamy. I know because I've had 3+ two year monogamous relationships and they all ended with a similar type of fizzle.

I don't think that poly is right for everyone, but it sure as hell is a way to grow. You are forced to confront issues of jealousy and loss on a constant basis, and that's a highly valuable growth mechanism right there. I believe that our culture at large could highly benefit from learning how to deal with these uncomfortable aspects of relating. However in highly structured relationships like monogamy, it's nearly impossible to explore these aspects sustainably.

I loved reading your story! Please share more! I'll usually share my own poly situations as they transpire. Really helps to cope when the shit gets real.

Thanks for sharing @thegiamarcos. I'd love to hear your thoughts about my recent post: These Three Words Will Instantly Change How You Perceive Your Life