A kind heart in a cruel world

in #people7 years ago (edited)

Not everyone will have your kind of heart, not everyone will appreciate what do for them, it won't be easy having a kind heart in this cruel world

Tony gaskins

It takes lots courage to have a kind heart in this cruel world ... !!!

Credit

image

At Some point, along the path you chose, you might realise,or someone else convinced you, or life itself might force you to believe that a kind heart would never survive in this so hard world. You learned while growing up that love is unconditional, but again, you get convinced that it is conditional and that loving unconditionally will destroy you afterwards.

Indeed, you were convinced that a sensitive person can not survive in this difficult and sometimes cruel world; so you had to take the same path that everyone took, avoiding being natural, adaptable, and especially strong ...!

You were born, while being a sweet soul, but somewhere on your way, you were convinced or rather life convinced you that the sweetness is a weakness, then you also noticed that you never get rewards for your good deeds, and you always get paid back with evil

Then you fled very, very far ... !!!

You started to believe that being kind is a weakness ...

You started to believe that the magical and mystical thing that suffered so much pain was your sensitive heart, so slowly and constantly, it started to become a burden for you, in other words it was a hindrance in your path, and it was going to pull you down in the long run .

Your own heart has made you feel 'LOST' ...?!

You started to be suspicious of your own heart, because this sweet part of you, pushed you to be vulnerable and bare you ... !!!

Credit

You started to follow the same path as others ...

You started building a wall around your kindness and you were applauded for finally doing it like everyone else

credit
image

You thought you had made progress ...?

You began to assume that you had made progress, that you were right, and that you were on the right path, until an experience changed your point of view ... !!

Credit

image

Maybe it was something deep in you that sprang up again.

Maybe you have seen someone lose something that he was so passionate about or maybe a few simple words or flashing images have awakened that thing so deep in you; or it was simply an elusive feeling that you could not put your finger on.

Being kind is synonymous with: Adaptable; Natural; Fort.

Being kind is not a weakness, but it's what makes a person stronger, and makes you unique in this populated world.

Credit

Something that just had a big success ...

It touched you so much, but you simply could not get in or get through. It was then that you realized that you locked yourself in your hardness and that you finally wanted to pierce it ...

Credit
image

How can something as sweet as fire, water, wind and earth be so magical?

The fire started to swell and the water began to seep in, the wind was whistling and the earth was shaking so much, and it was then that you felt an omnipresent fear within you.

Credit
image

You have to make a choice ...?

So, you started to feel an intense fear, but an inner voice started screaming in you and asking you to surrender, so you realized that you had the choice and you still have that choice ...

Credit
image

Answer to yourself ...

When you give in to the inner call and you understand life as it should be, then you begin to believe that being kind is synonymous with being strong.

Credit
image

At birth, every person is sweet and weak; When she dies, she is hard and stiff.

All things, including grass and trees, are soft and supple when it comes to 'life'; Dry and fragile when it comes to 'death'.

Credit
image

The hard and the stiff will be broken finally ...

An army that does not change tactics will be defeated. A tree that does not bend will crack when the wind blows.

Credit
image

The beginning of the transformation.

If you can overcome this impasse, you will be resurrected from what has been lost. In short, you would be sweet again.

Credit
image

love and kindness is the FOUNDATION of the world ...

When you remember being kind, you will finally be free, so be yourself .

People with large hearts just can not help but been kind, even at thier own detriment .

But if been kind makes you happy why not just do it and don't look behind for what coins the person pays you back with and what's people think about you.

Thanks for reading
see you next time
@phunke
Sort:  

@phunke,

Thanks for the uplifting post.

Salutations. JaiChai here.

RE: Your Post

"Be brave enough to risk a thousand heartbreaks a day to love unconditionally."

Namaste,

JaChai

At doe point in my life, I felt this way, I believed I cared too much and I was disappointed one too many times... If anything, I've learnt its easier to get bitter than still being the good chap you've always been. But in the long run, all that bitterness would only hurt you!

Now, Ive learnt to be kind to everyone, and to do away with expectations from people. For People, always would fail!

Good morning @phunke

@pangoli,

I honestly thing you are right. Several times, I have been a victim of such but your solution here helped me.

@omowunmi

Definitely works.

Yeah. It works.

Yea @pangoli expectations hurt more

Many times I have been told to not expect anything. So hard not to.

This is awesome!

I agree with you!

Try writing one of these? 😊

@immarojas, I do write too. But @phunke works harder than me. I'm just a lazy writer :)

At least ure a writer...
lazy but a writer nevertheless😁

Yes one of the best writers i have met here! He is actually my mentor

That's an indisputable fact :)

Lol @immarojas please do not be decieved.

Hehe @immarojas he can write better than this

Congratulations @phunke! You have completed some achievement on Steemit and have been rewarded with new badge(s) :

Award for the number of comments

Click on any badge to view your own Board of Honor on SteemitBoard.
For more information about SteemitBoard, click here

If you no longer want to receive notifications, reply to this comment with the word STOP

By upvoting this notification, you can help all Steemit users. Learn how here!

I like the effort put on your work. You are indeed passionate about writing. Keep writing. Cheers.

Thanks @greenrun

Your words of encouragement keeps me going too.

I feel my self in this post...

Hi @neomilunastorta
I am glad you do,
And thanks for opening up.

Well written, keep it up. @phunke

@phunke there is always prejudice either you do good or bad. The truth is that just keep doing good and never expect anyone to love or reward you for that. Nice writeup

I agree with you.
Thanks

Agree that at times, just being kind for yourself is what matters. Sometimes things that are so simple can become awfully complicated because of others' expectations placed upon us. Good post.

Yes our life gets more difficult when we live it with too much consciousness of what others think.

Great angle to watch at things!

Coin Marketplace

STEEM 0.17
TRX 0.15
JST 0.028
BTC 59820.89
ETH 2421.54
USDT 1.00
SBD 2.44