Truth be told I hate labels in their entirety. I was taught to treat everyone as if I couldn't see them and I had just met them for the first time.

"Oh, you're a non-binary fluffy unicorn?" - awesome, you're my first. Nice to meet you!

I've always valued getting to know someone first over identifying them from a distance first and then deciding whether I want to interact with them or not.

I hate judgementalism lol