Oh yes for sure! I must admit, that between the wife and I, we had to try (really hard) to find the balance....I was too much of the 'having-fun-with-the-kids' type of dad, and she was too much of the 'this house needs to be perfect' type of mom. Man to find that balance can sometimes prove to be a real task....and yet we keep trying to improve as parents.
Good luck with your beautiful family, and thanks for the post.

Cheers