Disclaimer
This is going to be a blog heavily focused on BDSM, my journey through submission, and anything else my little depraved mind can dream up. Many of the stories I come up with will be based off of my own experiences. Some may be completely true, some semi-fiction, and a few completely imagined fantasies. (I am always open to requests)
If you are under the age of 18, please leave. Almost all of this content will be NSFW. You have been warned. :)
A little bit about myself! I have been experimenting in the kink world ever since I had the capability to think sexually. However, I did play as a Domme more than a submissive. It took a very special Dom to change my mind.
My current dynamic is a 24/7 1950’s household, heavily focused on service and strict protocol. I have daily journaling, and weekly tasks to keep me in a submissive mindset. Those tasks range from playing a video game that He wants me to experience, to edging for a minimum of 10 hours to a certain pornstar within a certain amount of time. If the task isn’t completed I have agreed to a punishment that ranges based on the severity. This dynamic will be the inspiration for a majority of the content within this blog.
Something else to note is that I have consented to this lifestyle. We negotiated the rules and limits for a long period of time and still negotiate different aspects of our dynamic as new things come up.
Once again, this blog will be for people over the age of 18 and geared towards people with an open mind. If you aren’t either of those things, read elsewhere. :)
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Welcome to the Steemit and NSFW communities, always room for more kinksters! ;* As someone who has damn near exclusively identified with a submissive mindset, I am always intrigued to hear about the circumstances that lead to a switch or someone who likes to flow between. My partner enjoys similar roles to the 1950s households in relationship, but we don't get into service tasks (beyond the ones in the "bedroom"), although I certain see the appeal.
Thanks so much for bringing up consent; while those in the lifestyle are aware of the level of respect that is so strong in the BDSM community, it can be easy for others to observe and fear abuse. Exploring my interest in BDSM has expanded my communication and confidence in what is right for me; it can be such an empowering tool in achieving sexual health.
Looking forward to hearing your stories!
Thank you so much!!!!! I never thought I would be about service outside of the bedroom but now I can't picture my life without it. Some of it is as simple as putting his shoes on him before he leaves for work and making sure he has everything he needs.
I do plan on writing a blog on what lead me to switching what side of the slash I primarily play on. I feel there are just so many different things in the works that it is hard to know what to produce first! Haha
I brought up consent for that very reason. I assumed many readers would not be familiar with the BDSM world and total power exchange has the tendency to scare people or they assume I am being held against my will when it is truly the opposite. I am really hoping to connect with open and like minded people on here. I would also like to help other submissives with any questions or concerns they may have.
I agree that BDSM can be used to teach us how to negotiate our wants and needs. In most vanilla relationships, you don't see that happen and I feel that is an aspect of BDSM that should be a part of any type of relationship. It is so important to communicate with your partner.
Thank you again for your positive feedback. :) I am so excited to get started. :)