not you!!! LOL

i was saying that sometimes i belittle my own suffering because I compare it to the perceived REAL suffering of others.

but.... we need to live in our own worlds and realize that everything affects us very personally and seriously.

I feel the same way as you - i refuse to be a victim.
(and when I behave like one - it makes me so mad!!!!)

I love you and I'm so glad that you challenged me - because it shows me I have some places that I really need to grow hehehehe

and i won't give up!!!! i won't! i promise!!! :) I love you! (and i currently have such little voting power that I need to do better than an upvote... hehehee tip! simple there you go!!! hehehe)