Instead of grooming girls to aspiring to greater things in life or even secular achievements, girls are being groomed to go to husband's house like that's the only good thing they can do in life.
Any little mistake she makes is met with, "Is this what you'd be doing when you go to your husband's house?"
Hence, Husband becomes a Trophy which if she doesnt get, has failed in life.
This is why many women have animosity toward each other instead of focusing on development.
I'm grateful I know better
Thanks sussan, you really understood my point,
It sucks how Nigerian parents see marrying off their daughter as fufillment of their duty, and the big question is after the marriage what next?
E don finish o
Na to begin dey born pikin