I oppose the ancient way of relationship. First, its archaic and not very much practicable in this world. Who the hell waits for his/her parents to bring a wife/husband home???
In the olden days, youths leave it all for their parents to make life decisions for them. Be it course of study or profession, religion, mode of dressing, marriage and also where to live or settle down. But in this generation we(youths) have been given the privilege and independence to make decisions on our own and i feel who and when to marry shouldn't be excluded.
Truth be told, there are many loopholes in today's relationship but going backward is not the answer.
In today's relationship, You don't always have to go n your knees to propose to your woman. You can just get her pregnant and leave the decision to her if she's gonna get married to you or not.
With the innovations and civilization steadily developing in Africa, I believe our marriage or relationship life shouldn't be lagging behind.
In conclusion, The modern mode of relationship fits today's Africa. We can't continue living like our fore-fathers.

Because, oyinbo say "the old ways we leave behind is a vomit that snake cannot swallow"
Thaink you