Walk Away from People Who Don't Value You

in #nigeria7 years ago (edited)

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99% of people stick with you because of what you offer them...They are loyal to their need of you. Once their needs change, they owe you no loyalty. Stick with people who remain true behind your back and cut of anyone who can't tell you when you're right or wrong. You can create anything you want in your life without other people's opinions.

It's really funny that the people who criticize your life are often the same people who don't know the price you paid to get where you are today. The people who tend to bring you down need to be reminded that nobody has ever gone up by bringing others down and no one has ever crossed to the other side by cutting others to pieces. You can never use rumors, gossip and lies to archive your purpose. In life you need to be aware of people who sweet talk you by assassinating other people's characters in your presence, the same knife they use to cut others in your presence they will use it to cut you in your absence.

People will always say shit behind your back but who cares, you are not born to please anyone.
You can still be kind and care about people without caring about what they think. This is maturity regardless of age.
In life we should thank the annoying people for being some of our greatest teachers, for reflecting parts within ourselves that need balancing.

People tend to hate you for 3 reasons:

1) They are jealous of you.
2) You are successful and they are not.
3) You are everything they hope to be.

When someone don't see the value of having you by there side, you don't need to convince them. In this life you have to do what's best for you, not what's best for everybody else. Learn to put yourself first.

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When people respect you, respect them, when they disrespect you, still respect them. You do not need to allow the actions of others to impede your good manners, because you only need you to be happy.

It costs nothing, absolutely nothing to treat someone with respect.

Maturity is when you don't have to react to every situation. Sometimes you just have to leave people to keep doing the same old stuff they do everyday. Never you allow people to make you feel unworthy. What people fear in you, are the qualities they wish to have for themselves.

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Those who pray for your downfall will witness your uplift in life.

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