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RE: Why i don't like ways modern relationships are taken plus 8 sbd contest give away

in #nigeria6 years ago (edited)

What type of Marriage fits the Atavistic, Unfeminist African society?

I'd say a little of the two. The relationship system that's commonplace here picks out the terrible parts of the aforementioned Marriage types and combines it in a mix.

Take for example, the stereotypes that emerge as a result.

  1. Expecting that the Man always picks up the bills.
  2. The stereotype believe that a lady is only in it for the Money.
  3. The stereotype believe that a guy is only in it for the sex.
  4. The adoption of traditional roles in the traditional relationship(Woman is relegated to housework, Man is made the sole breadwinner)
  5. Female sexuality is often unrecognised and unexplored. I.e (I've heard plenty, "All you have to do is lay on your back and make him happy" From much older women.
  6. Much emphasis is placed on the Man being the breadwinner, the Woman may be forced to abandon her career, decrease her hustle just to boost her man's ego simply because the society deems fit.
  7. The man suffers too, Some women totally slack off simply because they expect the Man to be the Man in all ramifications.

Both have unsuitable characteristics. Sure they've got their Pro's too but they don't appeal to me lol.

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