Whenever someone is "being drained" it is a clear signal that something not so nice is going on and no one is to blame but that person. He or she is not in the control of his or her energy and life. You gave some really good advice here on how to deal with those kinds of people and how to help yourself if we are those people. It was a delight to read this and it reminded me of some things. I love being reminded, thank you for being a part of my Universe honey 💚