@owasco, In my opinion, we are eternal soul beings and human life is phase of experience and phase of expanding our soul and mass consciousness. Most of the times people always look for happiness, life is just not about happiness, all emotions expands our experience. No matter how tough the life is, we should not forget the self worth and our health state because if we stay healthy then our mindset and thought process stay healthy. We can transform but we cannot postpone what we can't see. Stay blessed.