Forgiving the person you love so much for how she mistreated you is the starting point of recovering from the hurt. It allows you to move on. The ability to forgive is a very manly trait and a character of a great person. I, too, have experienced a similar situation in the past, and believe me when I say that I understand what you are going through and will go through. Be hopeful always because the experience of many is that everything works out for the better. Vancouver sounds perfect, my friend.