My 2017: Achievements and Failures - Incomplete Family
I read some entries in regards to this contest hosted by @anomadsoul sir Eric. I am impressed and I love to read some other again after sending my own entry. By the way, I would like to say thank you to Sir @tjcdc, he brought me to this contest!
To be honest, I would like to start first my greatest failure this year - 2017.
Last April 1 - Saturday, around 4:20 PM to be exact. That day was full of tears, depression, grieving and regret because my dad died of Severe Asthma that results in heart failure. It was heartbreaking seeing him in his coffin. We were not ready and it was unpredictable since he was fine that morning; he asked my sister to buy his medicine for nebulization before he died. My brother-in-law and one of the closest friends brought him to the hospital since I was out of the house, hanging out with my friends not knowing that my dad was dying. I regret! but that was true. It was not my intention to be happy at that time. I asked him before I left the house and he answered yes as mom also agreed that It was fine, you can leave the house.
He was the big man of the house, a dignified father; working as a carpenter, a good father of five and a loving husband. His goal before he left us was to provide for our studies and to finish our house because he wants to protect his family from any danger of life; as he only reaches Grade 5 Elementary Level. His mom didn't value education. He brought to child labor instead of school. That is why he provided us well in terms of education. He knows the value of knowledge to be learned at school. Thus he said to us, the world is full of competition; you need a gun!(not literal).
If you insist if what I have gone through with my greatest achievements this year. I think that acceptance, moving forward despite what happened to our family. Losing a father is like losing a home; life-changing. We will be celebrating his 60th birthday and first Christmas without him. I miss and love him so badly. I know time will come, we will see each other again to our first home called "Heaven". Have faith in God!
I can feel you there. Our family is incomplete as well.
pain, pain, i dont know why we need to suffer like this
sir jun2 naluha ung mata ko ahhh , salamat din sa mention, i am really sorry for your lost.
sad to say sir, thank you, hirapa pag wala ng tatay eh. heheh
oo nga sir jun2 eh yan ang pinaka mahirap ang mawalan ng magulang.
its really tough to live while family person losing but you are great person that move ahead and postive and sure your fahter have pround on you by seeing it.
thank you for your words sir @birjudanak. yes, it is really tough but we need to accept because it is fact.
I feel you sir.. Napadpad ako sa saudi last 2012 dahil sa hindi namin kaya gastosin ng otol (elder bro) ko na may thalamus cancer. umalis ako nov 24 2012, after 3 months ko sa KSA tuluyan nya na kaming iniwan feb-11-2013. Ang sakit na nawala sya ang sakit din tingnan na sa tuwing inaataki sya naghihinagpis sa sakit na nararamdaman nya. Hanggang ngaun presko pa rin sa kaing isipan at kalooban ang nangyari kahit apat na taon ng nakaraan.
Napatulo Luha ko dito ah.
Nanay ko din eh ganyan din ang nanay nya. Kung sana pinagpahalagahan lng nila, oh baka wala dn ako dito ngaun kung nagkataon baka di tau magkatagpo-tapgo dito sa steemit sir. hehehe
Gayon paman, patuloy lng natin ang paglalakbay kasabay sa agos ng buhay. Sa hirap man o ginhawa God is always in our heart.
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY SIR
Oh no! Sir, bata pa kaau xia nawala d.o. ge search nako uncha ng thalamus sir, part of the brain xia nga nag tumor sir. d jud lalim d.i to nga panahon sir para sa n.u. Mao d.i na nga very positive kay ka always sir tungod sa past experiences nimo. Kabalo ko naa na to karon as heaven sir. Grabeha uie, sakit kaau paminawon nga sakit. Dili lalim.
Oo sir, bsan akong papa iyang mama gihimo xiang child labor. gipapananggot sauna sir imbis nga ipa iskwela. sakit jud kaau sir mawad.an no? labina ingana nga nakita nato kong uncha ilang gibata before sila nawala.
God bless pud sa imong family sir ug sa imong kaugalingon pamilya pud. I salute you.
yup sir ang sakit kaau nga part when the neuro told us, “hands up nako sa inyo patient dli s ingun nga kay nalooy ko sa inyo gastohon but kna nga case no cure pa sya as of now, no med maitenance no pain reliever that can relieve or even lessen the pain, melagro nalang sa ginoo, he is one of a hundred thousand patient nga naa ana, very rear and mostly sa mga teenager lang he said” my bro was 29 dat time, dn i seached bout thalamus cancer so the neuro was right.. grabe nakong hilak sa doctor’s office lagi ako papa sis cuzn tito igu lng patulo s luha.. sakit pamalandungon ba imu big bro, bestfriend, protector wa ninyo damha s kalit lang gikan sa himsug kaaung panglawas daun dritsu lng nalumpo sa usa kapamilok hangtud sa higayon nga nipahuway najud tawon sya.. tungod ato mutoo nako nga masamang damo matagal mamatay kay naay mga salbahis diha naglatagaw wa man sila hatagi atong sakita hinoun c otol nga baling but.ana, ug sukad ato nagminaldito napud ko ug dugang kay may kahadlok nako bacg aq napd unyay mobiya. dili lalim ang byaan sa dayon sa imong minahal.. tulo luha nako da mingaw hehehe
as in sir, tinood jud kaau na imong giingon...kanang masamang damo dugay noon kay naa pud koy cousin pwerting buotana nag ka tumor japon.
hala sir uie, d nako ma imagine if ak ang nasa part nimo that timw before...samot na kay halata nga close mo duha. kay ikaw halata man pud nga loving ka as anak ig igsoon.naa d.i moi inheritance nga ingana nga sakit sir?
yup masamang damo jud matagal mamatay maong magpatuyang nalng ko sa akong ka masama para dugay ko kuhaon ni lord sir.. hehehe
hhmm NOPE sir wla jud mi ana kaliwat ang naa sa amo kaliwat kay UTI ra hehehe kalit rman to sa ako otol pagsik ra kaau to dn kalit lng ug ka luya dritsu daun sya bedridden dn after 4 moths and 19 days niya higda pahuway jud tawon sya..
hahaha. I think ako pud sir, I need it sir para pud nga dugay kuhaon sa ginoo, pero murag dili na kinahanglan e change kay bad na jud ko gamai. hahhha
hala uie. UTI? ikaw jud sir, murag common problem manang UTI guro sir. bsan akong ate, hahha. hala uie. sad to say sakit baya mawad.an pero unchaon man. mao naman ang gihatag sa kahitas.an
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