RE: Musing Posts
Science of happy marriage
What is the reason that the marital life of some couples remains the same as after the years of marriage? Some couples get separated after some time of marriage but for some couples, they become bonds of births.
A marriage is based on "belief" and "commitment". To be attracted to the person of the opposite sex is in our genes, but to control your emotions depends on genetics and other factors, and this is also the science of successful marriage.
Some men and women can cheat their partner, but some couples are able to keep the "physical attraction of the opposite sex" limited. What happens to this? To find the answer to this question, many researchers are researching their own ways. The answer to this question is linked to genetics and biology from psychology and there is a need to undertake intensive study on this.
The results of research done so far show that some people are naturally conscious of 'attraction'. But with this, the brain can be trained for this too.
According to the news of the New York Times, John Lidon of McGill University conducted a survey on this topic. Through the survey it was known that the effect of "momentary adverse attraction" on the lives of ideal couples is affected.
Some committed married men and women were selected for this survey and they were shown photos of people of the opposite sex, and they were told to identify the beautiful persons. These people obviously chose the people who can be considered to be beautiful. A few days later these people were shown the same pictures again and the same question was asked, but this time it was said that the people selected from the photographs would also like to meet you. This time these people gave fewer points to those photographs which were earlier given more marks.
That is, the minds of these people are trained in such a way that it attracts the attractive person of the opposite sex, but as soon as they feel that because of that person their marital life can be in danger, "so much so Not a beautiful "alarm.