Surrendering to your spouse is not a bad idea in a relationship. What you need to discover is how often your spouse dim it fit to make you surrender. If you are in a relationship that your spouse always want to have the day in every argument without reasining with you then its an error to keep on surrendering especially when you know that you are 100% right.

Relationship is a give and take matter. Both parties have to always put into consideration the happiness of one another.

Sometimes you have to surrender to make peace. When one is hot the other should be cool in other to complement each other but consistence surrendering will make one have no say in the relatiinship. Its good to know when to surrender and when not to. Just don't be egocentric in dealing with your spouse. Walk together in peace.