My Why is pretty simple, I do stuff out of love.
I use the word “love” a lot. In our household, there’s never a shortage of hugs and kisses. We’re a family that is very affectionate. It’s hard to remember how I was pre-kids, but now my children are the center of my everything. It’s something that can only be understood when you have your own children.
But more generally, I like to share the love; I want to see more kindness in a world that often feels cold, unfair and self interested. It’s always so nice to see people be kind and considerate to others too. It’s sad to say, but I just don’t expect it. I feel we’re becoming more self absorbed as a society. I’m always shocked at what people do to get ahead or to avoid accountability. It’s disturbing to me to see how people behave in groups ‘to fit in’. So I do my little bit making others happy because it makes me happy.
tl;dr: I’m a people pleaser. Tragically, it’s cry worthy that I am so. I think I answered your question... 🙄