Have people who embrace your flaws- people who know that once in a while you will also struggle,go through pain but still they stand with you.

Key point in choosing your circle of influence @elsiekjay, It's not about lifelong friends @bashadow, from my personal experience those can be the worst sometimes.

I recently experienced what it means to have a good circle around, they really don't have to be your friend, though some kind or a relationship will be formed, usually they see the best in you, and will do whatever it takes to bring it out of you with no ulterior motive.

Why?

Becasue they don't need anything from you.