#Daily motivation:: IFC S1 R38 entry; Love yourself, trust yourself and be yourself!!!

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To be truly happy, the first thing you have to figure out is how to love yourself. Once you like you, it prepares/keeps you abreast of all or any different kinds of encounters you may experience in today's world. Whatever you give attention to is exactly what you get, why not give attention to the nice and the positive?
Choose to reside in love and kindness rather than in the ego. Whenever we stay in our ego, life is complicated and distorted. If you wish to experience everything totally, forget about your ego.

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world. – Lucille Ball

The key to success/happiness is forgiveness. Without forgiveness, you will remain stagnant, Keep that in mind. When you forgive someone, it is good for you, not for them. You aren't declaring what they performed or said was fine, you say: it's done, I cannot change it out, now I have to ignore it so that it doesn't imprison me in my own thoughts of not forgiving.
Ensure you maintain being at your best anywhere you are and with who you are with all the time. Be there. To go with that, forget about the past. Days gone by is merely that: DAYS GONE BY. Until you release and let go of yesterday, you won't have the ability to reside in today. Don't base all of your present activities on days gone by.

When you undervalue what you do, the world will undervalue who you are. – Oprah Winfrey

Find out what you are interested in and stick to it. Don't just negotiate in life for just about anything, find what you like while you are pursuing what you love. Understand that you are worthy of the best and do not accept anything less. Be truthful and devoted. Be very aware that you'll never be perfect; no-one and there is nothing that's ever been. In the event that you keep trying for perfection, you won't ever be truly happy for you'll feel sad at the slightest bit of odd you see.

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Don't contend with others; do your very best to be much better than YOU were last night, not much better than someone else.
Understand that you can express almost anything you want. Use the legislation of fascination every day. If you'd like something, tell it to the World. Be specific. You have to be brave, shy away from fear. It will keep you back from living the best life you might live, being the best you you will be, and the rest in life.

Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it. – M. Scott Peck

You need to learn to compromise when dealing with people in relationships (it is not a sign of weakness if done without pressure) and show gratitude towards people. You will be impressed at how wonderful they become.
Learn to respect others and give accolades to those who deserves it. Be happy to work for what you would like in life. Trust me, the effort is worth it at the end.

Friendship with one’s self is all important, because without it one can not be friends with anyone else in the world. -

If you acknowledge who you are, respect those around you and you're genuinely interested in your environment, you will observe how much goodness will stream in to cause you to be even happier.
Every event/happening is a learning experience: do your very best to find out what it wants to pass out to you. You may well not have the ability to understand it right away, however when you are prepared, you will sometimes understand why it happened.

As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. – Marianne Williamson

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I really like the quotes you chose to use in your post. People do need to learn to love themselves, and your ego is a part of you. So this line I sort of disagree with you on:

If you wish to experience everything totally, forget about your ego.

I think, (and it may just be me), that it is wrong to forget about a part of who you are, and that with people trying to "get over" their ego is where people develop that sense of self loathing, that there is something wrong with themselves. (but like I said, it could just be me).

I did like your post and your message.

Maybe people should embrace their ego, and see it for what it is. There's an adage in my area here, it goes thus

Prostrating infront of a dwarf, doesn't mean when you stand you wouldn't be taller

With due respect to dwarfs though...
With ego, you lose what you could have had, ego keeps you from asking for help when you really need one.

I really like your post

I'm glad you found it interesting

i like your title i 'll post it on my facebook Love yourself, trust yourself and be yourself!!!

😁 Go ahead 👍

Beautiful photo and luscious words..

All photo credits goes to the source! I'm glad you found the post luscious! I love the word!

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Hey there, thanks for the entry! I especially vibed with this part.

"do your very best to be much better than YOU were last night, not much better than someone else."

That's an important lesson and reminder!

I disagreed with a few parts like for example.. You say remove ego but love yourself, but.. Loving yourself is essentially loving your ego. And also this part "Whatever you give attention to is exactly what you get" I am a bit familiar with the law of attraction and all that, however.. No one has managed to put enough attention on world peace yet or any other various problems despite putting much attention on them. If only it was as easy as just putting our attention on things, however action is needed and then still sometimes it's not enough.
Outside of those couple things I think you shared with us some really great lessons and inspiration! Excellent work. Thanks for your thoughtful and motivational entry!

I appreciate you for your kind words. Loving yourself is truly about loving your ego, I meant to say remove pride as it grows from excessive love for oneself.
On world peace, if only people are genuinely interested and not doing it for power sake. Countries who boost of promoting and focusing on world peace are power driven, giving proper attention to things happening help you become aware of your surroundings.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this.

The quotes are self explanatory and one who hears it right may gets motivated too..Nice effort..

But i do have a small question, Is it like loving oneself more may turns out to be selfishness....Just asking???

I can't say it will to be specific, I just think there should be a balance between loving yourself and looking out for others around you!
Look at this: You have biscuits you can finish, it's the right amount for you. But your neighbor hasn't eaten. Self-love says it's the right amount you need for yourself, accommodating others say pass some!
Think about it!

YA...I can understand...

but in the scenario you mentioned I will definitely pass on those buiscits to neighbor even if I feel little hungry...

You have a kind heart! ♥

Thanks for the compliment dear