Self-love: A Possible Solution

in #motivation5 years ago

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Are you tired of what is happening to you? Are you depressed or frustrated? Are you having suicidal thoughts and you see it as an option? Please hold on, let us talk briefly about a topic that may be missing in your life. Have you heard about self-love? Well, it is loving yourself too much to allow wrong things happen to you. Yes, it looks like it is not that easy but it is.

When we mention true love, we know it means having true feelings for someone. Having this feeling that he/she means a lot to you and it will be wrong to allow something bad to happen or hurt the person. This is truly how it works but the love is directed to yourself alone. Putting yourself first is the beginning of self-love. I am a true testimony of this principle.

You have family members stressing you, put yourself first dear reader. Put your sanity first, put your mental health first, put your mind first and watch you recover from depression. A young man committed suicide because he kept on failing a particular examination, he had the fear that his father would kill him. If he had put himself first and realize he loves himself too much to be pressured into killing himself, he wouldn't have.

I know how life is but looking at the mirror and seeing our image do put smile on our faces. This shows how much you mean to yourself. Please, don't let anyone stop you from loving yourself. Don't allow few failures or setbacks to make you hate yourself, it will definitely get better. I believe so much in life changing course for your sake so you can achieve the best. Quitters don't win because they have lost hope.

Tell yourself today: _ I love myself too much_ to hang myself with a rope or swallow poison. I love myself too much to go through an abusive relationship. If your partner breakup, learn to love yourself at that period so you can be ready for the next relationship which may actually be successful. Self-love may actually be the way out of your emotional problems, try it today and stay alive.

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