How to Be More Resilient When Tough Times Don't Last
The adage "Tough times don't last. Tough people do." is a good reminder when we feel down or hopeless. Tough times are temporary and can help us get through a tough time, but they can also make us stronger. Read on to learn how to be more resilient during tough times. Embrace change and remember that the toughest times don't last. In fact, they may be the time to improve and expand your abilities.
Dr. Robert Schuller's quote "Tough times don't last, tough people do"
If you have read the book Tough Times, Tough People, by Dr. Robert Schuller, you know what he means. His life was rough. He was socially awkward, academically mediocre, and was always the last player picked for a sandlot baseball team. He spent a lonely childhood tending his father's cattle. While he has always been an outspoken proponent of hard work, he never ceased to believe in miracles.
Although tough times do happen, it doesn't mean we should be discouraged. You have to face the challenges that come with hard times, and tough people don't last. For instance, Dr. Robert Schuller has been under fire from critics and state tax collectors for running profit-making programs on church property. Although these problems are unrelated to his work, they shouldn't deter you from taking the steps necessary to create a better future.
Embrace change
We've all experienced tough times, but it's not unusual for us to rationalize them as pervasive and permanent. You've changed jobs, hired new people, and moved to another country. You didn't see these events as risks, because they happened when they did. Instead, they were temporary obstacles that you needed to overcome. Here are some ways you can overcome your resistance to change and embrace change when tough times don't last.
Try to remember past successes, if any. Your past successes will make you stronger and give you the ability to accept the current situation. Remembering your past successes will give you the confidence to pull through the current crisis. It's an exercise in patience. The more you practice accepting change, the easier it will get. And if you can stick with it for a while, you'll be more likely to succeed.
Embrace the change
Adversity is inevitable and it can change our lives, whether we want it to or not. Some changes are predictable, such as moving to a new city, while others can be unforeseen, such as a coronavirus pandemic. Embracing change can be difficult, but it can be a necessary part of life. In such times, embrace the change and embrace the challenges it brings.
Although accepting change may seem frightening, it will eventually pass. Change can bring new stories and happiness, and you'll be glad you embraced it. Embracing change allows you to grow and achieve your goals. It may be painful, but it will ultimately be worth it in the long run. If you resist change, you may never experience joy again. In time, you will feel better and see that change is necessary.
