When people reach Middle Age, these kinds of people do not interact, more than the benefits
When you reach Middle Age, you have to start subtracting, you really don't have to put so many people in your life, you should give your relationships a break, and throw away the useless social interaction, leave only friends who are helpful or comfortable with themselves.
After all, the ink is close to the ink, the circle of people is still very important, more and excellent people to deal with, we will also be Osmotic, the level is rising, but with some people, there are only bad, no good, and possibly contaminate their vices.
When people reach Middle Age, they reach the stage of unbemusement, a lot of things should be indifferent, should not be so persistent, leave the left, and some friends will be broken, after all, there is no benefit. In general, when people reach Middle Age, these kinds of people do not interact, more than the benefits.
Number one: someone who doesn't like you in their heart
Our friends are not always able to appreciate us, some friends are really very proud, in the mind do not look at you, every time meet with you will damage you, all sorts of find a presence in your body, in the youth, we are likely to be self-abased and afraid to resist, or especially want to prove to such a friend to see, but always keep such a friend.
But when it comes to Middle Age, it doesn't matter. You don't have to live in the eyes of others. We have to keep friends who are truly like minded and comfortable, and for those who don't recognize themselves, a man bent on crushing himself, Far Away, saves energy and makes him uncomfortable.
Number two: people who don't want to get ahead and have a lot of anger
We know that energy is contagious, especially negative energy, and that it spreads faster and more powerfully, and that if we don't get ahead, we're filled with negative energy, and we're dealing with people who complain about things, we also unconsciously become the kind of person who can only complain and don't do the real thing, which is really very bad.
People learn before they are thirty, and after thirty they have to deal with people who are competent, interact with more advanced people, learn from their strengths, so that we can continue to improve, and those who do not advance and are full of resentment, let's just stay away from each other.
Third: People who are not good at moving things around
We should make friends with quality, not quantity, so quality is very important. To those who are good friends, we want to come and go more often, but for those who are not well-mannered, who are often duplicitous, we can not afford to be, or as far away as possible, to keep ourselves out of trouble, there should be a lot of important things to do in life, instead of wasting time on people and things that aren't worth it.
A friend who is not a good person is likely to lead US astray, bring us all the bad influence, we should resolutely eliminate.
Fourth: Not Honest, love to take advantage of the People
People talk to each other, are honest, but some friends always don't mean what they say, they don't do anything right, they don't do anything right, and they don't do anything right, and they always want to take advantage of other people.
For such a friend, we try to minimize contact, and do not do business with them, otherwise it is very easy to create unnecessary disputes, and make themselves very depressed. The friends who are really worthy of our friendship must be honest and good-hearted.
After Middle Age, with the increase of experience, time settling, living should be more thorough, have a set of rules of their own, also very firm on their own goals, can no longer be confused, there is no capital to escape.
So even if the relationship, some interpersonal relationship or combing, really do not waste time in useless social, what kind of person is worth associating with, what kind of person should be away in time, should be able to know.
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